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Commitment Phobia and Christian Singles
Commitment phobia is the fear of commitment. When we speak of commitment phobia among singles, we are referring to folks who avoid committing to long-term relationships such as marriage. People who suffer from commitment phobia come in all varieties. Commitment phobes (no, I didn’t make this term up!) can be both male and female, Christian and non-Christian, teens, single parents or seniors. Commitment phobia among singles can occur for several reasons and can keep someone single. However, most commitment-phobic men…
Making Peace with Your Past: A Christian’s Path Towards Spiritual Healing
Do you have an issue with making peace with your past? Many Christian singles can’t get over the past. Several years back, I went on a Christian singles retreat, where the topic at hand was making peace with my past. Christian single after Christian single shared their sad stories of how a bad past experience, a soured relationship, or a sexual sin had held them back from living victoriously in the present. Although many Christian singles there that weekend desired…
Christian Singles Events and Conferences : How to Publicize
Does your church, singles site, or ministry have Christian singles events or single Christian conferences you’d like to promote? Did you do a search for “Christian singles events near me?” We’d be happy to publicize your Christian singles event right here because we consider that part of our mission at Christian Dating Service Plus! is to encourage other single Christians to edify and encourage one another by meeting regularly together for fellowship. It’s tough living a Christlike single life in…
Christian Single Dads Dealing with Grief and Loss
Are you many of the Christian single dads dealing with loss? Grief is a universally human experience, a testament to the depths of our love and connection. For Christian single dads, this journey is often marked with unique challenges. Balancing personal heartache with the responsibilities of parenthood, they might feel doubly burdened. However, Christian teachings and faith can provide a wellspring of hope and guidance for such fathers. Let’s explore the distinctive struggles Christian single dads face and how their…
Christian Counseling for Single Christians
25 years ago as a single Christian, I probably needed Christian counseling, but most churches considered the term “ Christian counseling” an oxymoron. Well, today Christian counseling services are in the mainstream of church body life. In fact, many larger churches employ ministers who provide professional Christian counseling services for their congregations. The journey of singleness, with its joys, challenges, and intricacies, is a unique phase of life. Whether you’re single by choice or circumstance, it’s a time that can…
Is it a Sin to Have Sex Before Marriage?
Is it a sin to have sex before marriage? Is sex before marriage still a sin if you love each other? These two questions are some of the most asked questions I get at Oasis Singles. Sex sin is a huge issue for Christian singles. Why? The simple answer is that most singles struggle with some form of sex sin, or at least are tempted in this particular area. Let’s lay aside masturbation for a moment. The question “Is it…
Where to Meet Christian Single Women or Men
Situationship Red Flags: Christian Single Situationships Ever wonder where to meet Christian Single women or men? I know some lonely Christian single guys in one of the small groups I lead who sure do. A typical question in our support group goes along these lines: “So how and where do I go about meeting a nice Christian girl?” Since we were curious ourselves (aren’t you guys?), we decided to do some research on the Internet. What we found was quite…
Generation Z Christian Singles
As Generation Z Christian singles can tell you, the vast majority of other 20-something singles and college singles do not attend church. Paradoxically, Generations Z Singles as they are called today, are also one of the most receptive age groups to evangelize. How can both of these statements about Gen singles be true? The answer is that many Christian churches are simply missing huge opportunities by not communicating the Gospel to 20-something singles in ways that make sense to them.…
Signs of a Healthy Relationship For Christian Boyfriends/Girlfriends
Wondering what the signs of a healthy relationship are for Christian boyfriends or girlfriends? Would you even be able to spot that good catch of a Christian boyfriend or girlfriend when they come into your sights? Recently, several singles sat down and came up with the following top seven signs you are in the right relationship with your Christian boyfriend or girlfriend: Top 7 Great Signs of a healthy relationship Jesus is the most important person in their lives. Remember,…
Safety Dating Tips for Christian Singles
So you’ve decided to try Online Christian Dating? Great! Now let’s talk about safety dating tips to keep you from ending up in some whacko’s trunk! Most online Christian personals, dating sites and Christian chatrooms provide some online safety dating tips, and do their best to ensure members’ privacy and safety while using their particular dating services. However, since none of these Christian dating sites can 100% guarantee that your next date will not be Ted Bundy II, Christian singles…
Christian Dating Without Losing Your Brain
Don’t you just love that title? I do. Christian dating without losing your brain. Now there’s a novel thought. How many Christian dating singles have acted irrationally in pursuit of their perfect date? From Christian single girls who date bad guys, to dating mistakes by both guys and girls, it seems many need a little help in this area. And it’s especially the case with internet dating. Well. here’s some good news: in our Christian dating podcast of the month,…
Low Self-Esteem in Christian Singles
Low self-esteem in Christian singles is keeping them from finding a serious dating relationship. It’s really simple: If you don’t feel really good about yourself, you’re not going to think anyone else will either. Sadly, problems with low self-esteem can not only affect our dating relationships but all other areas of our life, including our emotional health. Many feel like losers. Single men and women with low self-esteem suffer more depression and discouragement, loneliness, and anxiety in their lives than other…