Posts from September 2025
What Can Christian Couples Do Sexually Before Marriage?
How to Find a Christian Wife Christian singles ask us this often: What can Christian couples do sexually before marriage? Is masturbation together ok? Another question I hear often is: Is it a sin to have sex before marriage? In today’s age of modern relationships, many Christian couples find themselves navigating the intricate boundaries of intimacy before marriage. Traditional Christian teachings emphasize the importance of preserving sexual purity, and not why Christian couples should not live together before marriage. And…
Anxiety Attacks and Being Single
Single people who suffer from anxiety attacks know how much it can affect their dating relationships and self-esteem. I should know because I used to suffer anxiety attacks for years myself. I remember one night being at the movies with my new date, when a terrible anxiety attack came over me. I started sweating, and my heart felt like it was jumping out of my chest. I later found out this was called relationship anxiety. LOL, I just thought I…
How to Control Desire for Sex as a Christian Single: A Warm, Witty Guide
So, you’re a single Christian trying to stay holy while navigating a world that seems determined to throw temptation at you from every direction. It’s like walking through a dessert buffet when you’re on a strict diet. Except instead of desserts, it’s a never-ending stream of, well… you get the idea. Fear not, friend. This guide is here to help you keep your focus on God while keeping your sense of humor intact. Let’s dive into some practical, warm, and…
Steps Lonely Christian Single Women Can Take to Battle Loneliness
Would you label yourself as one of those lonely Christian single women? I met a single lonely woman today. She said she had no one with whom to share the burdens of her heart. If you feel like you too are a lonely single woman, you’re not alone. Lonely Single Christian women Facts According to a Duke University study, 25% of the US population feels like they have no one with whom to share their pains of life. The vast…
How to Deal with the Pain of Being a Christian Single
Let’s be real: being a single Christian can feel like a lifelong membership to the Waiting Room Club, where the chairs are a little too hard, the magazines are way outdated, and the receptionist keeps saying, “He’ll be with you shortly.” We wait, we pray, and sometimes we even feel a little bit lost. So, if you’re feeling the pinch (or maybe even the pain) of being a single Christian, this article is for you. We’ll dive into some biblical…
Loving a Dismissive-Avoidant Christian Single
Let’s face it, love is complicated enough without adding attachment theory into the mix. But when you find yourself head over heels for someone with a dismissive-avoidant attachment style—and they’re also a devoted Christian—you’re entering a unique adventure. Don’t worry, you’ve got God on your side (and me, your trusty cheerleader). Here’s how to navigate this path with humor, patience, and a sprinkle of divine grace What is Dismissive-Avoidant Attachment? For the uninitiated, dismissive-avoidant attachment is like the emotional equivalent…
Time Management and Living Single
Are you a time saver? A time waster? Do you have trouble prioritizing tasks? For whatever reason, time management and living single and alone don’t mix too well. Many single Christians, especially recently single again men and women, seem to be short on time. Many I know tell me the problem is they don’t prioritize their time efficiently. That’s what we call poor time management. Maybe one of the reasons some of us have time management issues is because we…
Dating After Divorce as a Christian Single
Dating after divorce for Christian single men and women is wrought with theological and emotional minefields. So before discussing dating tips for the newly divorced, let us express our simple views on what we feel the Bible teaches about divorce and remarriage. A future article will discuss this in depth. The bottom line is God hates divorce (Mal. 2:16), and desires couples to reconcile if at all possible. However, under certain circumstances where there has been unrepentant infidelity, the offended…
Christian Single Women Dating Mistakes
Christian single women dating mistakes are avoidable, but it’s easy to see how single Christian girls can ( and guys for that matter too!) can make dating mistakes. Part of the problem is that Christian single women could find 1000s of different dating tips for single women, and some would be totally contradictory to one another. So what we’re going to do with this article is post the top dating mistakes single Christian women make. After that, we give some…
Bible Study Guides for Christian Dating Singles: Navigating Love with Faith
Bible study guides are useful tools, especially for Christian singles who live such busy lives. With an online Bible Study Guide, say through Bible Study guide.org, one can access free online Bible translations, lexicons, Bible study commentaries, a topical Scripture guide, and basically any other kind of Bible resource you may need. Finding true love is a journey that every person embarks upon at some point in their life. For Christian singles, this journey is interwoven with faith, guided by…
How to Stop Being a People Pleaser as a Christian Single
Wondering how to stop being a people pleaser? In the journey of Christian dating, singles often face the challenge of balancing their own desires with the expectations of others. The inclination to please people can be deeply ingrained, especially within the context of relationships. However, for a fulfilling and authentic connection, it’s essential to recognize and overcome this tendency. This article will explore the concept of people pleasing in Christian dating and provide ten practical steps for singles to cultivate…
How to Stop Worrying About Everything: A Christian Single’s Guide
Having personal experience in this area, it’s easy for Christians, especially singles, to fall into the trap of constant worrying. This concern can pertain to aspects of daily life, relationships, future plans, and even spiritual growth. However, the Bible provides profound wisdom and practical advice on how to release these anxieties and find peace in God’s promises. Understanding Worry Through a Christian Lens Worry is often a reaction to the uncertainties and potential problems that we might face. But as…